Bridesmaids’ Attire Being a bridesmaid is pay-to-play, and ponying up for a bridesmaid's dress is expense number one. This purchase is covered by the bridesmaids, including if the bride requests a general style of shoe (like a nude pump or metallic sandal). But if you want your ‘maids to all wear the exact same shoes and accessories, you’re the one who should cover those costs. Bridal Shower The cost of the shower is covered by the hosts. If the bridal party is hosting, they