You definitely have to know your correct measurements, (like bust, waist, hips, and length) before you purchase your bridesmaid dress. Typically, you can get these measurements done while you’re trying on different dress styles, but if you weren’t able to attend the shopping excursion — don’t worry! Just go visit your local seamstress so you can have a professional take your exact measurements.
6 Months Before the Wedding
Purchase the bridesmaid dress
Around the six-month mark, the bride should have already picked out the bridesmaid dresses. So as soon as you find out the designer or dress style she wants you to wear, go ahead and order the gown. It can take anywhere from two to three months for a designer bridesmaid dress to arrive and you definitely don’t want to be pushing it when it comes to getting your alterations completed in time. Finding the bridesmaid dress, whether you choose to go into a bridal salon or opt to buy online, needs to be done immediately after you hear which dress the bride wants everyone to wear.
Find your shoes
After you’ve ordered the bridesmaid dress, it’s a good idea to pick out the shoes you will wear on the wedding day. Usually, the bride will tell you the specific color and style of shoes she wants everyone to wear - especially if the bridesmaid dress is short. Double-check with her about any style specifics before you go ahead and buy a new pair.
3 Months Before the Wedding
Schedule your first fitting
Bridesmaid dresses (like wedding gowns) aren’t always made-to-measure and probably won’t fit right away — even if you did buy off-the-rack. So, it’s a good idea to schedule an appointment with a seamstress to ensure that the gown is fitted properly to your body type. Whether that be altering the dress length or taking the gown in at the waist, making alterations should be done during the three-month mark of your bridesmaid dress shopping timeline.
1- 2 Months Before the Wedding
Schedule your final fitting
Schedule your final fitting about three to five weeks before the wedding day in order to stick to your bridesmaid dress shopping timeline. This will give you enough time in case you have to make any other minor alterations.
Take the dress home
You’re able to take your dress home after the final fitting, so definitely make sure to find a safe place to keep the gown until the wedding day. Find a place in your closet or away from anything that could damage the dress and make sure it’s in a breathable garment bag.
Put the final touches together
On the day before the wedding, make sure that you have your bridesmaid dress and any other accessories, like earrings or jewelry all in one place. This will ensure that everything will get safely transported to the venue or bridal suite safely and not forgotten. We also suggest checking in the with the bride-to-be to see if she wants anyone to bring or invest in a portable steamer. That way everyone’s dresses (including hers) will be wrinkle-free and wedding-day ready!
It’s officially wedding day! Now is the time to get glammed up and ready for the big day. All you have to do is steam your bridesmaid dress, get dressed and then help the bride with any of her finishing touches. And, of course, don’t forget to celebrate!